Sometimes You Should Just Stay out of Other People’s Business

Yeah, I bet you’re thinking that I’m a jerk for being nosey and prying into my girlfriend’s business. Well, that may be well and true, but I was more than positive she was cheating on me. Why? She was being very secretive, especially when she was using her phone. I was sensing she was exchanging messages with another guy. I decided to use an app called snapspy to spy on my girlfriend’s Snapchat usage. Upon reviewing the information my super sleuth skills had aquired I was shocked, but not in a bad way.

So, you were right, I shouldn’t have been going through my girlfriend’s stuff, and snooping into her business. It turns out she was planning some awesome getaway for myself and a group of our friends to celebrate my upcoming birthday. She was doing it all through Snapchat so that I wouldn’t be able to see anything in her text messages by accident. I feel kind of bad, in fact I feel really bad. I feel almost bad enough to let her know what I have done, but this trip will be so awesome I don’t want her to go and cancel it because of my insecurities.

Worse yet, what if she breaks up with me because I didn’t trust her? That would be the worst thing that could happen. I’m freaking out right now. I know there’s really no way for her to know what I have done, but it still sits with me in a bad way. I know I’ll feel guilty about this for some time, unless I come clean. I’m just afraid of losing her because I was stupid. I have to tell her anyway, because I need to be honest with her, and more importantly myself. Next time I feel any doubts I’ll just go to her with them instead of relying on an app that pries into peoples privacy.

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